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He Took Her Life Away!

Many things in my life have been hard........that will be another blog..........this blog, however, is about one of the hardest tribulations I have had to face in my  life.  My best friend, Stacey, is deceased.  She was murdered by her husband, John Young.  We shared many things in our lives. We had our oldest girls only 2 months apart, they grew up together, we then had our younger girls together and they were childhood best friends.  We did almost everything together.  She was always the one who I could tell anything to and she was the only one who could tell me how it was and not sugar coat anything.  Our friendship withstood many ups and downs, but we always managed to stay true to us.  One day Stacey told me she was unhappy in her marriage and wanted to leave......she then decided to leave and did.......2 weeks later she was gone after leaving my house just 45 minutes before. Life is a precious thing, remember friendship is something to hold on to and cherish because life as well as friendship can be taken from you very quickly and sometimes very selfishly. I can't say how much I wish she were here! I have written many poems about Stacey.....here is TAKEN.........

 

You were taken
no more life
I thought they were mistaken
what a rude awaken
The call she made
thought it was you
I asked you
not to go
How could you
knowing he was so cold?
We had plans
you were so happy
The last words you said
I need you
You are my best friend
in the house you went
No one there
out back he sat
A gun and cold stare
He pulled the trigger
Wonder what you said
you ended up dead

Just Me! :c)

Just a little from my psych side of things................ In life there are no re-takes or do-overs, you get one shot to make your dreams come true!. One shot to show all the people in your life how much they truly mean to you and how much you love them and need them in your life! Sometimes people treat complete strangers better than the people they love! Sometimes the people that you love, the people that you trust, the people that mean the most to you, will let you down, disappoint you, and break your heart!. Sometimes you will find that someone you thought you knew so well will do things that, at times, will make you feel like you have never even known them at all! When the people closest to you hurt you it so so painful!. I think that is because you expect more from the people you love!. You expect them never to hurt you!. It is easier to forgive someone you do not know, who does you wrong, than it is to forgive someone that you love, who does you wrong!. Sometimes someone that you have never really given a chance will turn out to be there for you more than the people who have been there for you your whole life!. So try not to shut anyone out because you never know what they could bring into your life, they could surprise you!. Life is full of hurt but it is also full of happiness!. Do not let anything stop you from finding your happiness!. Once you have found whatever it is that makes you happy, whoever or whatever it is, do everything you can to hold on to it,.because you never know when it will go away!


GOD BLESS!